With 'Good Behavior,' Dharun Ravi Released From Jail
Ravi was convicted on bias intimidation and invasion of privacy charges for his role in a series of webcam spying incidents that targeted his gay roommate, Ridgewood's Tyler Clementi
The man convicted of spying on his gay Rutgers roommate was released early from his 30-day jail sentence Tuesday, according to published reports.
Dharun Ravi, 20, of Plainsboro, was convicted in March on 15 counts related to a series of webcam spying incidents where he publicized his roommate Tyler Clementi, of Ridgewood, engaged in romance with another man.
After serving 20 days in the Middlesex County Jail, he was released Tuesday for "good behavior," according to a report on Northjersey.com.
According to CBS 2 News, he also received good news when federal immigration authorities said they would not be deporting Ravi to his native India, where he remains a citizen.
Clementi jumped off the George Washington Bridge days after Ravi attempted to hold a "viewing party" of him and another man engaged in sex. Ravi was tried and convicted on invasion of privacy as well as bias intimidation charges in a case that garnered international interest. He was not charged in causing Clementi's death, however.
Under the conditions of the controversial sentence, Ravi still must pay more than $10,000 in court costs, attend "alternative lifestyles" sensitivity classes, perform community service, and is on probation for three years.
Prosecutors have appealed the sentence, stressing in court papers they believe Ravi should serve hard time, as the statutes recommend five to ten years of prison time. The appeal process could take as much as a year.
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Ricky
1:43 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
A full year in jail would have been the right sentence. With just 30 days but out in 20 is not what I would have wanted for him had he placed a hidden camera in my dorm. Does this mean for example that an employee who works in a store or office building who hides a camera to spy on the public can expect to face only 20 days?
Harlan Consider
2:11 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Show me a case where "an employee who works in a store or office building who hides a camera to spy on the public" gets ANY jail time?
BellairBerdan
2:26 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
I found 3 instances with a quick google search not even getting past the first half page of results, Harlan. What do you think is an appropriate sentence for someone who is convicted of destroying evidence and tampering with witnesses?
Toni M.
3:10 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Problem in the case was it was his dorm room. Why can't he put a camera in his own dorm room?
Allen J
3:37 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
toni- it wasnt HIS dorm room it was THIER dorm room. if my college roomate video taped me sleeping with college girls that would be ok because it is his dorm room?
i in know way think ravi should have got over a year, but 20 days is a joke.
Toni if you slept with a guy and did things that you thought were only being shared between you and that individual and found out his roomate video taped it and shared the video with his friends and acquaintances do you think 20 days in prison is a fair punishment.
i have a son and a daughter both in college. if ANYBODY invaded thier privacy like this kid did i would be in prison for much longer than 20 days for giving the kid the beating he deserved
Toni M.
3:51 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Dude, if I slept with a guy in my dorm room, my roommates did crap like that. That's what happens when u do stuff in college. Do I think it's right, NO. But I have as much right to my dorm room as my roommate and I couldn't tell my roommate to leave, or turn the music down or anything else she wanted to do in it.
William Mays
4:11 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
What you need to realize is that while what Ravi did was wrong, he had no idea that Clementi would kill himself, and that isn't his fault. He didn't pull the trigger here. He didn't force Clementi to jump off the bridge.
Harlan Consider
6:47 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
To all those who are bringing up "similar" cases where much heavier prison sentences were imposed, please be sure to compare apples and apples. Please make sure that your examples consist of:
1. The victim(s) was an adult.
2. The perpetrator had no previous criminal record.
3. There was no filming of nudity or sexual act.
BellairBerdan
8:27 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Harlan, perhaps we were unfair. Please feel free to give us examples where they received no jail time after being convicted. I'm sure you would only compare apples to apples and only include those that were also guilty of destroying evidence and tampering with witnesses.
Joe
12:12 am on Friday, June 22, 2012
He didn't hide a camera...he used his laptop which was out in the open. Blaming Clementi's death on Ravi is ignoring the real problem. Clementi's parents did not approve of his being gay and he clearly was depressed beyond anything Ravi could have done. By blaming Ravi for Clementi's suicide we are sending the message that it is okay to commit suicide because you are depressed, which is NOT the right message to convey. PERIOD.
FourScore
3:16 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Here's a guy who got 5-20 years;
http://static.record-eagle.com/2005/oct/20hidden.htm
Stacie Bohr
3:31 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
@Toni, I don't think it's an issue of putting a camera in his dorm room if he wanted to tape himself having sex. He deliberately planted it on his unknowing roommate. Then he schemed with other members of his dorm to humiliate him. And now the boy is dead. If someone did that to one of my children, I could not imagine what I would do. This sentence was a joke.
Toni M.
3:42 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Stac, u don't play fair. lol. Making it personal changes the dynamics. I totally agree. No, I point was that there is no expectation of privacy in ur own dorm room. I agree that what happened was tragic. But here's the thing, if this poor guy wasn't so afraid of how society was going to judge him, he may still be alive.
HobokenTownie
9:51 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
The kid had deeper issues and he did not kill himself because of the voyer. Young people do stupid things, this was an over reaction. Tragic, not a crime in my opinion. I never trusted my roommate freshman year and caught him stealing, he played the race card when I caught him and when he refused to leave his life in room was made miserable. If I had a camera I would have recorded everything!
chokhi
9:15 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
If you ever went to college you would know that dorm rooms really have no personal places or corners. You literally change clothes, sleep, eat and do EVERYTHING in plain view of your dormmate. If you expect a privacy then you need to be in a single person dorm room or for pleasures you need to go to a hotel or to your home.
Tammy
3:37 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Hi Toni--He has every right to put a camera in his dorm room. What he doesn't have the right to do is broadcast what another person living in that dorm room is doing without that person's permission. Throughout this whole ordeal I have often wondered if opinions and verdicts would have been different if the victim had been female.
Allen J
3:40 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
reply- if it was a female who killed herself due to the embarassment she felt the sentence would be 10 years in prison
k1ng
7:10 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Actually, I think if it had been a girl with a much older stranger she had only met online, we would all be lamenting her morals; and feeling outraged for the young roommate told repeatedly to leave her room to facilitate the encounters
chokhi
9:18 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
YES!!
chokhi
9:25 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
If it was a 18 year old girl with an adult then we would be thanking Dharun for recording the incident and asking for a jail time for that coward who was prowling the dorms to spend a night with teens. Come on people- the sicko did not even know the full name of TC! How is that different from someone actually picking up a prostitute?
Journey
3:46 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Mr. Clementi had an expectation of privacy while in his dorm room. Mr. Ravi violated that. When you are out and about in a store you do not have an expectation of privacy (in public rest rooms you do).
Stacie Bohr
3:49 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Toni...I'm not playing at all and am unsure what was unfair. Rhavi was on trial and not the victim for how he came out and/or what society thinks of homosexuality. if it were a heterosexual couple and one of the partners killed themselves would that make it any less devastating or a little "less bad"?
Toni M.
3:58 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
No No Stacie. I don't think it's any less bad at all. I meant that IMO Tyler was so consumed by how society would perceive his sleeping with a guy that he felt overwhelmed and took his own life. Tragic.
I meant that u took the perfect approach, by personalizing the argument and saying if it was my child, I lose any attempts to be objective Of course we would do anything for our children.
IMO roommates in a dorm room have no expectation of privacy as TO THE OTHER ROOMMATE.
Joe
12:16 am on Friday, June 22, 2012
Toni...he wasn't "sleeping" with anyone...just hooking up.
Linda Sadlouskos
3:50 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Allen J. & Tammy — Whether the person filmed was male or female, taping a college roommate in a private moment and then putting it out there is a violation of common humanity.
LD
6:26 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
If a violation of common humanity was a crime, most of society as we know it would be locked up.
chokhi
9:35 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
For a private moment you need to go to a private place not a shared dorm room. Yes, if you share a dorm room with another person that you have not known for more than a few days, you do have every right to set up a camera to protect your self and your belongings.
Stacie Bohr
3:54 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
And also Toni, I'm not sure if you live in a dorm but when I did, my roommate and I not only expected privacy, we exercised mutual respect. Don't think otherwise because you deserve it too.
Toni M.
4:01 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
I lived in a sorority and trust me there was no expectation of privacy. Thank goodness no you tube back then. Just photos.
William Mays
4:13 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Everyone does crazy crap in college, I wouldn't want stuff getting out about what I did in college, but I wouldn't kill myself if it did. Ravi should not have to answer for someone's mental instability. Not everyone respects each other, you happened to get a roommate that you liked, some people don't.
toni system
4:36 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
@billy- i agree with you ravi is not responsible for the death, however i believe such an invasion of privacy deserves much more than 20 days in jail. 3-6 months would have been fair to me, but 20 days is a joke
bob
4:36 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Billy Mays, Ravi was not convicted of causing Clementi's death. He was convicted of bias intimidation, evidence and witness tampering. Read the laws - he was clearly guilty.
FourScore
4:41 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Did your sorority secretly video tape each other having sex, and then broadcast it for the whole college community to see??? That's a big difference from 'no expectation of privacy'.
Toni M.
5:36 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
I hope not. That would mean any political dreams are ova!!
chokhi
9:39 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
This is the age of internet, digital cameras, twitter, youtube and facebook. If you expect privacy you pay for a single dorm room.
Stacie Bohr
4:07 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
You are right in a way, Toni. I guess I do have a hard time being completely objective with regard to this because of the "what if it were one of my kids" thought process. I am sure I wouldn't be selected for the jury! On a more objective level, I do think there should expectation of privacy, at least I would want it and fortunately I had it.
Allen J
4:18 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
toni- you got to chose your sorority and it seems like you chose a group who liked to have fun and pull pranks on eachother. i did the same with my friends at college. however these two were placed together and did not seem to have a friendly relationship- jokes and pranks are much different when a FRIEND does them to you in attempt to be humorious.
we can agree to disagree but i believe posting someone nude or having sex with out thier consent it is a clear violation of privacy. would it be ok for me to hide a video camera in my room so i record the women i sleep with because it is MY room even without thier consent? my answer is an obvious NO but your comment suggest you might think other wise.
-feel free to share some of those college photos.... although maybe we should ask your sorority sisters to post them online because according to you that would be ok without your consent because hey "its college'
Toni M.
5:35 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
That's not what I said. Don't put words in my mouth.
chokhi
9:47 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Allen J, where are you getting your information from? "posting someone nude or having sex with out thier consent". Who was in that condition? Not TC or his rapist. Yes, that is what I would call that MB guy. He only "used" TC, (who was insecure and felt rejected) for his pleasures.
Tammy
4:22 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
@Linda-I agree with you 100%, I already know my opinion on the matter. I was just "wondering out loud" if my opinion was in the majority. In my personal opinion it doesn't matter if it were a male or a female or if it were a gay or straight intimate moment, it would be wrong either way. I think if it were a young female college student taped and broadcasted and if she had the same reaction to the situation there would have been a bigger outrage. I could be very wrong but that's what I think.
chokhi
9:48 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
No one was taped. Get your facts right.
toni system
4:31 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
-'we caught this college kid clearly violating someones privacy, should we do anything about it?"
'No its college that stuff happens all the time"
-'we just broke up a party with an insane amount of cocaine, should we do anything about it?'
'No its college, frats and sororities do that all the time."
-'a huge brawl broke out between opposing fans at a football game, sending innocent bystanders to the hospital, should we make any arrests?"
"c'mon man its college, that stuff happens."
-'just pulled over a college kid drinking and driving should we bring him to the station?"
"no its college, that stuff happens."
chokhi
9:52 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
-'we caught this college kid clearly violating someones privacy, should we do anything about it?"
'No its college that stuff happens all the time"
-'we just broke up a party with an insane amount of cocaine, should we do anything about it?'
'No its college, frats and sororities do that all the time."
-'a huge brawl broke out between opposing fans at a football game, sending innocent bystanders to the hospital, should we make any arrests?"
"c'mon man its college, that stuff happens."
-'just pulled over a college kid drinking and driving should we bring him to the station?"
"no its college, that stuff happens."
- Just caught a 32 year old with an 18 year old in a dorm, should we be alarmed? Naaaaah! It is a college. It happens! Right?
Stacie Bohr
4:37 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Toni S...."but everybody does it"!
T Zinger
5:12 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Only twenty days & gets to stay in the country. How sad.
chokhi
9:53 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Stay sad. It aint changing.
jp1
5:33 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
He was convicted on all charges and the judge had no backbone. At least one year then send him back home to India.
LD
6:38 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Dharun Ravi was not convicted of all charges.
William Mays
6:40 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
No, the judge just wasn't a moron that wants to make a name for himself.
k1ng
7:25 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Tiny bit rascist there......"send him back home to India"...this is his home, since he was a child
BellairBerdan
8:33 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Luca D. There were 35 questions related to 15 counts Of those 35 questions, 24 were answered with a guilty verdict. He was found guilty on ALL 15 counts. You can see all the counts here: http://www.dailytargum.com/news/ravi-found-guilty-on-all-counts-in-webcam-spying-case/article_e5da8b64-6f84-11e1-b6f1-0019bb30f31a.html
LD
10:08 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Ravi was found not guilty of committing the act based upon sexual orientation which was one of the key components to the hate crime provision.
LD
10:10 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Break down of verdict. http://www.nj.com/news/index.ssf/2012/03/ravi_webcam_trial_verdict.html
BellairBerdan
11:05 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Luca D. You're right. he was found not guilty on one question. Let us not forget Ravi was also being tried for what he did to MB, Clementi's guest. Bias intimidation wouldn't really apply to MB since he was not living in the dorm. Ravi was found guilty of bias intimidation in Count 2 and Count 4 . In Counts 6 and 8 "Ravi was found guilty of attempting to invade Clementi’s privacy because of his sexual orientation and targeting Clementi because of his sexuality. Ravi was also convicted of committing the invasion of privacy offense knowing it would cause Clementi to be intimidated."
Then of course he was found guilty of three counts of tampering with physical evidence, one charge of witness tampering and three charges of hindering apprehension or prosecution.
chokhi
9:55 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
The judge was the only one with the backbone in this case. If we were sending back people like this then there will be no one left in America.
Jabooty
6:20 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
His conviction will also be reflected in his being turned away from any college that values diversity and any employer that does not value bias crimes (or criminal records). Unless he works for family, he has a record and his name is thought of as the crime itself, from media coverage alone. He didn't make Tyler jump, but he created the panic through his ugly personality and pompus attitude. He certainly isn't someone I or many other people would be proud to know...and while Tyler made a horrible decision, we all KNOW what caused him to even have to contemplate the situation (...that Ravi created).
Em
7:04 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Was Ravi charged with Misdemeanors or Felonies? From my understanding.. some employers only ask and look for Felony convictions.. if he wasn't convicted of a felony it's very likely that he can go to college in PJ's and get a job with an employer that doesn't check for misdemeanors. That's more than what Tyler Clementi will ever have a chance to accomplish.
chokhi
10:08 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
I would not be so sure about DR's future the way you painted it. TC was mentally unstable and that is why he is not alive today. I do not think most people care about who is Gay or not as long as they are left aone. TC was uncomfortable with his origin and being rejected by his family. Gay people do not kill themselve if they are stable and feel secure.
Jerry Gordon
9:15 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
You're not allowed to voice an opposing opinion here, with out getting slammed. Leave toni alone. The biggest offender is stacie bohr who slams anyone who disagrees with her...... Ravi went to court and was sentenced paid is debt. The punishment was fitt given the crime, which was a college prank. Unfortunately Tyler Clemente had some other issues. One of which was he could not accept his homosexuality The whole incident is a terrible tragedy, it's time to move on.
FourScore
9:40 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
No one is ‘slamming’ Toni, we are just voicing our own opposing point of view. She seems to think that 1) Ravi had the right to videotape hid roommate since it was his dorm room, and 2) her experience in a sorority with very little privacy is somehow analogous to this case. Unless Toni has been secretly taped having sex and that tape was broadcast to hundreds of people, she really has no idea about the experience. And to blame it on the victim’s sexual orientation is ridiculous…. what heterosexual would want this to happen to them???
Stacie Bohr
9:48 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
I find your comment funny. When one of the Toni's pointed out that my objectivity may be clouded as a parent, I stepped back and thought about it and agreed. I am curious what it is that I have said that is so offensive. I don't expect people to agree with everything that I say but would hardly consider my comments offensive. So please...enlighten me, Jerry.
Jerry Gordon
9:58 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Ravi had the right to do what ever he wanted to, toni was right. You expect everyone to act and think like you. It's politically correct to adore homosexuals. If not, this would have never been in the news. There are many more stories just as outrageous except they do not fit the news media's agenda....
FourScore
10:05 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Oh really? Care to post one??? I posted an article about a guy who got 5-20 years for secretly videotaping nude women. So much for your theory about coddling homosexuals.
LD
10:15 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Toni doesn't need anyone to interpret what she meant @Hookerman, especially when that interpretation is inaccurate.
Jerry Gordon
10:40 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Hooker-That story was not a national headline. Taping nude woman is so heterosexual.
Toni M.
10:40 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
I never blamed anything on Tyler being gay genius. I said that it was society that made this man feel pressured by who he was. ur constant reference to sex tapes leads me to believe ur a little repressed there, ain't ya. I never said it was ok to video tape. What I keep saying and believe is that there is no privacy in a dorm room for people whose room it is. Did u ever think that maybe Tyler killed himself because the 30 something guy that screwed him blamed him for this mess or used him for sex and dumped him?
William Mays
10:51 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
I agree. I'm in full support of gay rights, however I am not in support of twisting the law in favor of one sexuality. If Clementi wasn't gay we wouldn't be having this discussion.
FourScore
8:38 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
I keep bringing up sex tapes because that is exactly what this case is about…. It’s NOT about living in an environment where there is little privacy, which we’ve all probably experienced at one point in our lives. But that does not give anyone the right to secretly videotape you and broadcast it to hundreds of people without your consent. I’m sure if it happened to you Toni, you would not say; “oh well, no big deal”.
And Billy Mays, if this is only because Clementi is gay, does that mean if someone did the same thing to your heterosexual daughter, then no problem?
chokhi
10:11 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Jerry G, you said it!
Tammy
9:24 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
I'm not sure it was a case of his homosexual act being exposed. From what I've read and saw on the news Tyler was quiet, reserved, and introverted. I think he would have done the same if his sexual partner had been a woman. Humiliation is just as painful whether you are gay or straight.
BABY 1
1:38 pm on Sunday, June 24, 2012
YOU ARE SO RIGHT TO INVADE A PERSONS PRIVACY YOU DONT EVER NO THE OUT COME OF THEM BEING HUMILLIATED , THIS IS REALLY VERY SAD THERE WAS A YOUNG BOY THAT TOOK HIS LIFE OVER THIS , FROM A STUPID KID BEING ,MEAN ,SELFISH AND FOR WHAT A LAUGH .. NASTY ..
Nick Nicholas
9:35 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
I think our great state sent a man with severe M.S. away for 7 years for growing his own marijuana while this evidence-tampering sociopathic homophobe is given 20 days because well... he's homophobic, meaning, boys will be encouraged to be bigoted boys as long as it benefits the Right. I'm not saying he should have been locked up forever, but the sentence on its own given the crimes and within the larger context of the criminal justice system, it's a giant pat on the back of the likes of people like Charles Worley and Karl Rove. New Jersey really is the South of the North.
Lurky Loo
9:57 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Gee, now it's a left right thing?? OK well the "left" are so willing to forgive Roman Polanski for drugging and raping a young girl but according to you, the "right" has encouraged bigoted boys by not punishing him enough. If your going to spew political crap , at least TRY to be consistent.
Nicole Faulkner
9:42 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Hmmm...missed the part where Stacie "slammed" anyone...??? Having an exchange with someone (who indicated no offense @ Stacie's comments, btw) coming from a different perspective is not 'slamming'. If anything, Stacie's comment suggested an empathetic voice for what it may have felt like to have been Clemente. Perhaps if more people showed a capacity for empathy (you know 'the ability to understand and share the feelings of another'), we wouldn't have as many Ravi/Clemente situations. Easy for you to say "it's time to move on", Jerry - I don't suppose Tyler Clemente had any significance in your life. His actions did not consitute a "college prank" & there most certainly is a lot of 'grey' betwen 20 days & 1 year with deportation.
Stacie Bohr
10:08 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Jerry...let me make something perfectly clear....I do not expect nor do I want the world to agree with me. And what does "it's politically correct to adore homosexuals" mean anyway...I don't understand that statement at all. I'll be as clear as I can be with my point of view and the last thing I am doing is trying to shove my opinion down anyone's throat. I don't care if you are gay, straight, Christian, Jewish, Muslim, black, white, yellow, or plaid. I do not believe that Ravi murdered Clemente but what he did goes beyond a "prank" and his sentence was insulting to Clemente's parents and loved ones. You don't have to agree with me and I can assure you I will live with that.
Jerry Gordon
10:33 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
I'm not laughing stacie, it's kind of pathetic. One minute you're ready to take the law into your own hands to prove how you would punish Ravi if it happened to you. And on another thread you're telling Kevin Nedd to stay off the Patch because he's in Hawaii. Your thinking out loud is embarrassing too. Get a life.
Nicole Faulkner
10:56 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Jerry, are you seeing secret posts that the rest of us are not?? No fair! Not only did I miss Stacie 'slamming' anyone for a difference of opinion, but I missed the part where she was "ready to take the law" into her own hands to "prove how she would punish Ravi". Could you please refer me to that post? Oh, and the other thread, you know - where you interjected, saying that if you "were in Hawaii" you wouldn't "waste one second on crap like this"...where was anyone told to "stay off the Patch"?? I'm a little confused...
Nick Nicholas
10:19 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
'Lurky Loo' - Spinning around in a circle, bringing up irrelevant moral issues (or "false equivalencies") are not effective rhetorical devices. It's an issue of left-vs-right when it comes to supporting inequitable prison sentences influenced by pharmaceutical corporations and exploiting social injustice because that's the military-industrial-prison complex's foundational operating policy.
This witness-tampering, evidence-destroying and privacy-violating homophobe got 20 days in jail. Sorry to remind you of the absolute subversion of our democracy (including our justice system) to oligarchic interests. Remember who our governor is and what an ethical fellow he is and what businesses he owns that are operating with little state oversight and are "in chaos" according to mainstream media reports. Oh, they're halfway houses. Sorry, this actually *is* all related, but I'm worried you'll bring up something about Woody Allen and assume I'm OK with that too, so I'll end here.
Lurky Loo
10:40 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Morale issues?? Roman Polanski was FOUND GUILTY in a court of law and skipped town before he was supposed to be sentenced. Why haven't they called for his extradition? All I hear is aww it was so long ago, blah blah blah ... where is the justice for the girl? Not everything is left and right and wtf does Pharmaceutical corporations have to do with this case?? BTW...you have some major conspiracy issues. Just sayin...
Stacie Bohr
10:53 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Jerry...you need to get a grip. I stated that as a parent I would be upset with ravi's sentence had it been one of my kids. I wasn't turning it into a vigilante form of punishment. With regard to Nedd...he expressed that he can address whatever he wants as he stills pays a mortgage here but then proceeded to call NJ crap. Put on you reading glasses or have someone explain to you the nature of dialogue. I am very comfortable with what I write, apologize when I am out of line but refuse to when I'm not. If you don't like what I have to say, ignore me then. But I can assure you I am not going away. And you didnt answer the question about it being PC to "adore homosexuals". That isn't exactly a popular comment for one as enlightened as you to make. And it's not just the big bad Stacie Bohr saying that. I still don't understand that comment.
Jerry Gordon
11:04 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
If you need things explained to you this conversation is way over your head...Billy Mays gets it. If anyone needs to get a grip it's you, your retorts are too long winded.
Kevin Nedd
1:11 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Below you state your "retorts include thought and intelligence". Since when? It doesn’t take much thought and intelligence to lie and distort.
I didn't say NJ was "crap". I said you are likely to find more crap in NJ than you would find in Hawaii. In this case crap being drama (political or otherwise).
I also didn't comment on my mortgage as a justification for voicing my opinion. I used the fact I still pay property taxes in Washington Township as my justification for commenting on what happens there.
Stacie Bohr
1:34 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
KMN...I don't lie or distort. To be honest, as I always am, my first post indicated that I know you take a lot of "heat" for your crimes. If I didnt say things precisely as you stated them or would like to hear them, I am sorry. I don't know you or your politics and for that reason I felt a bit sympathetic when I said that you took heat as I did not have an educated opinion. That is the truth. But now....I can understand the disdain for you. And even as you admit to your crimes...you still have the nerve to be so smug? You are a psychologist's dream!
Kevin Nedd
2:02 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Staci,
I didnt ask for your sympathy, so please save those sentiments for someone who cares. In the future try quoting and/or paraphrasing accurately and we wont have any issues. Lastly, any decent psychologist will tell you if a person feels the need to explicitly state they are honest or intelligent, they are doing so to convince themselves, more so than anyone else.
Stacie Bohr
11:07 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
My retorts include thought and intelligence. Perhaps you should study them to improve yours and your empty points of view. Have a good evening, Jerry.
Jerry Gordon
11:15 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Typical middle aged woman, always has to get the last word...
William Mays
11:16 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Yep.
Nicole Faulkner
11:37 pm on Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Typical fragile male ego...resorting to personal insults rather than sticking to the point.
chokhi
9:09 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Allen J, First of all if it was a girl with a boy (not a teen with an adult) this would have never become a "case". Girls and boys are kissing each other all the time in front of others as well without any inhibition. Also, You said you have a son and a daughter in colleges. Would you be fine if your son or daughter(assuming your kids are also 18 year olds) get intimate in their dorm room with a prowler of their own sex who is in 30s? You also need to get more facts about this case. Their was NO VIDEO TAPE! Nothing was recorded.
chokhi
9:58 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
BellairBerdan, You see what is shown to you. Bring out the facts that were put under the covers and never shared. Would love to see those too. We have a rogue media.
BellairBerdan
11:31 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Chokhi, if there were "facts that were put under the covers" they should have been brought out during the trial. If they were not, that means those rumored facts you allude to were not very credible. Why are you calling MB a "prowler" when he was an invited guest? Are there age requirements for guests? Would Ravi have known what they were doing if he didn't stream the hidden video? I will say though, if not for the fact that Clementi was gay, very few of you would be defending this criminal.
Rosie
10:35 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Another rich kid getting away with something. 20 days?????? What a joke. Now he is on good behavior. Where was this good behavior when he was doing what he did to this wonderful young man who took his life because of the same he felt. What are HIS parents doing now without him. Not living in some big mansion and enjoying life as Ravi and his family are doing. The Justice system in this country stinks. If you have enough money, you can get away with anything. Think about OJ and so many others. He should have done a lot more time than 20 days and be deported to where they treat incidents like this in a different way. That is what he deserves. Plus, he has never shown any remorse for his actions. He is a piece of crap as far as I am concerned.
William Mays
2:44 pm on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Who said that he was rich?
Billy Mays
4:25 pm on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
I'm the one who is rich. I'm one of the richest gay men in Fort Lee.
William Mays
4:43 pm on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Get a life Milly. You know, I'm starting to think you could be associated with the school board, care if I go any further?
TCG
2:25 pm on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
I have an idea. Since Ravi is such a tough guy who is now laughing all the way back to mommy and daddy's house, how about we hire a limo to take him halfway across the GW Bridge and let's see if has the guts to jump. Or even look down. With any luck this incident will haunt him every day for the rest of his life. But I doubt it.
Karin Kiesow-Irvine
2:52 pm on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Hope his mother feels some remorse for her role in her son choosing the cowards way out...wasn't she the one that couldn't accept him when he came out of the closet? Lets drive her half way across the GWB and have her look over the railing...lets see if she has the courage to jump, doubt it. Has she shown remorse in how she treated her son? This kid did not have to kill himself, if he was so ok with his choice then he would still be alive!
Stacie Bohr
8:08 am on Friday, June 22, 2012
I completely agree with you, Karin. Shortly after this happened I saw her in a television interview where she openly admitted to not accepting Tyler's homosexuality. She did not commit a crime punishable by law but certainly a crime of morals in not supporting and loving her son UNCONDITIONALLY. His life was a powder keg and Ravi lit the fuse.
BABY 1
9:06 am on Sunday, June 24, 2012
Nobody can say if he would be alive or not ok the fact of the matter is a stupid young foolish kid got away with commiting a crime ,,he should be deported ok , and his family has to live with the biggest loss of a child ok . and his sentencing was not harsh enough he was ((( Found Quilty ))) PS IT IS A CRIME TO VIDEO TAPE ANYONE IN A SEXUAL ACT NO MATTER WHAT THEY ARE DOING !!!!!
Harlan Consider
10:24 am on Sunday, June 24, 2012
BABY 1: They were kissing. That's all. Is that a "sexual act"? If so, then I guess I'm committing a crime if I videotape my family out in public and I happen to catch another couple kissing.
B@B
9:28 am on Friday, June 22, 2012
All: There was a very good article in the New Yorker a few months ago that gives perspective into BOTH of these young men. In the article, I found that Tyler Clementi's mother had realized that her OTHER son was gay before he even came out, but that she had always hoped Tyler would "get married and have children." THIS, folks, is why gay marriage is important. One should not be denied the ability to have a loving marriage and family just because one is gay. There should be no reason why Mrs. Clementi should not have been allowed to see her son walk down the aisle just because he was gay.
Stacie Bohr
10:45 am on Sunday, June 24, 2012
Harlan...that hardly is a reasonable analogy. This is obviously a very sensitive topic. Whether they were kissing or having sex, it was not up to Ravi to out Tyler to the world in such a manner. Taking a picture and capturing a couple in the background sharing a kiss in no way equates to deliberately planting a camera to spy on someone for a laugh. That's just my opinion...no one jump down my throat, please.
Harlan Consider
12:27 pm on Sunday, June 24, 2012
Just answering Baby 1's statement. Of course the circumstances are different, but you can't make a blanket statement about something being against the law without thinking it through.
BABY 1
1:33 pm on Sunday, June 24, 2012
I AGREE STACIE NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO INVADE ANYONES PRIVACY NO MATTER WHAT YOU ARE DOING WITH WHOM , IT IS MEAN ,AND THE SAD PART IS THIS FOOL GOT AWAY WITH IT ..
BABY 1
1:30 pm on Sunday, June 24, 2012
He still got convited of a crime , so that is a fact . he should be deported ok cause what it is ok to invade peoples privacy and get away with it for good behavior , do you like wasting tax payers money i dont .how would you feel if this guy invade your kids privacy ? think about it , i would be very upset , if someone invade my son and his girlfriends privacy . / so if you where in your home with your wife and someone was spying on you weather your kissing or what ever you are doing in you private space you think that is ok no it is not ,
Karin Kiesow-Irvine
3:07 pm on Sunday, June 24, 2012
We can't even get our government to deport "real" criminals (murderers, rapists, pedophiles) but you want us to deport this guy?
BABY 1
9:36 am on Monday, June 25, 2012
yes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Karin Kiesow-Irvine
10:13 am on Monday, June 25, 2012
and what about the "hard core" criminals Baby 1?